'There's a gay bar in my pocket!': how 15 years of Grindr has affected gay communities and dating culture

One of pop culture's early but most seminal depictions of gay online dating comes from a 1999 episode of Sex and the City. Stanford Blatch, Carrie Bradshaw's gay friend, played by the late Willie Garson, is seeking advice. He's been chatting to another man on an online chatroom – the height of technology at the time – and wonders whether they should meet up. "What do you know about him?" asks Bradshaw. "Well, his name is bigtool4u" answers Blatch – cue hysterics from Bradshaw.