My Sex Drive Roared Back as a 49-Year-Old Woman. Even I Can't Believe What I'm Doing About It.

Feeld Notes is a column about a middle-aged woman who suddenly realizes she wants to have sex again--and the beguiling app she uses to do it. The first man I had sex with in the decade since my divorce was not so much a man as, well, a boy. He was 29 years old, with a lean torso, olive-brown skin, and dark hair and eyes. He was more than 20 years younger than me. His name was Enrique, and like many of us on the app where we met, he looked different in his photographs than he did in real life.