How to sparkle in conversation with strangers

In the face of loneliness, many people are turning to AI chatbots for companionship - but research shows it can't replace human connection. Guaranteed compassion, encouragement and validation? A soothing voice available to massage your ego whenever you feel unsure of yourself? If you could find a living being with these qualities, you'd call them your soulmate, and yet it is exactly what many chatbots are offering an increasing number of users. But can those exchanges with AI ever achieve the benefits of real, human connection?