The Best Instruction-Tuning Data are Those That Fit

High-quality supervised finetuning (SFT) data are essential for unlocking pretrained LLMs' capabilities. Typically, instructions are paired with responses from various sources by humans annotators or other LMs, which are often out of the distribution of the target model to be finetuned. This, at scale, can lead to diminishing returns and even hurt the models' performance and robustness. We hypothesize that SFT is most effective with data aligned to the model's pretrained distribution and propose GRAPE-- a novel SFT framework that tailors supervision to the target model. For each instruction, it gathers responses from various sources, and selects the one that aligns most closely to the target model's pretrained distribution, as measured by the normalized probability. We then proceed with standard SFT with these selected responses. We first evaluate GRAPE with a controlled experiment, where we sample various solutions for each question in UltraInteract from multiple models and finetune on GRAPE-selected data using LMs from different families including LLaMA.1-8B,