How to Do It is Slate's sex advice column. Send it to Stoya and Rich here. As a sexually dominant-leaning female, I get a lot of instant gratification out of gorgeous women online telling me my assertiveness is impressive and sexy. When I have sex with women in my dreams, it's perfect. While my "traditional" long-term relationships have been with male-presenting people, I slept with several women in my early 20s--though I struggled to find satisfying connections.

How to Do It is Slate's sex advice column. Send it to Stoya and Rich here. My wife and I (both women) are now in an open marriage … at least in theory. The problem isn't our comfort levels--we love each other deeply, are both comfortable with the idea that we can venture out but that we'll always come back to each other, and generally have pretty good communication. The problem is how to find someone else who's interested.

These days AI is doing so many things, right from driving cars to writing poems, but this kind of application of AI is totally crazy, a company has created the world's first AI-powered sex toy. The device is called'Autoblow AI' and it has been developed by a US-based company Very Intelligent E-commerce Inc (VIECI). According to the company, the Autoblow uses Artificial Intelligence to improve performance and can be programmed to suit the desires of a user. According to the press release, utilizing machine learning to study the actions of blowjobs, the Autoblow AI has figured out how to give men 10 different oral sex experiences. Brian, the device's inventor said: "By using AI, for the first time, understand the mechanics of blowjobs, we discovered and replicated techniques that make using our machine feel less robotic and more human."

A coffee shop that is set open in Switzerland where customers can receive oral sex while they drink is considering using robots rather than real-life prostitutes. The outlet, which is due to be up and running in Geneva by the end of the year, was due to see men order a coffee before choosing their prostitute on an iPad. Patrons would pay more than £40 for the hot drink and sex act, according to the firm Facegirl, which is modelling the idea on similar establishments in Thailand. However, as the cafe has yet to receive the seal of approval from authorities in Geneva, the company behind the plans say they could use sex robots instead of women to carry out the services on offer. Bradley Charvet from Facegirl told the Local that he had already been in contact with an American firm that manufactures the lifelike robot-women that cost up to £2,400.