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Am I Dating An Algorithm? Relationship Experts Weigh In On The Impacts Of AI

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Online dating is rapidly changing as technology progresses in our society. It has become a more popular and more accessible way to meet people and express attraction. While dating apps open up new opportunities, especially during this time of social distancing, the majority of online daters are still struggling with the process of online dating and the reality of harassment. Romantic attraction is difficult to predict. While data on personality traits like the Big Five and attachment types can effectively predict how much individuals want to be in partnerships and how desirable they may be as partners, romantic and sexual compatibility and relationship longevity are difficult to trace and anticipate.


Dating app usage is changing for the better as the pandemic rages on

Mashable

As coronavirus cases climb in the United States, temperatures are dropping in many areas. This is a "double whammy" of sorts. While it's difficult to predict anything these days, it's likely that this winter, Americans will spend much more time at home than usual. Dating apps, however, are booming. Apptopia reports that Match grew 21 percent; OkCupid grew 21 percent; and Bumble grew 16 percent.


10 best places to find dating, sex, and relationship advice

Mashable

For many people, dating can feel like one of the most challenging things in the entire world, to put it bluntly. Modern-day technology has changed the game. But with this new convenience comes the stress of creating the perfect online dating profile, the tricky game of messaging a person you've never met, and a whole host of other complex issues. And, as if dating wasn't hard enough already, the single people of the world now have to do it with the added stress of safely navigating a global pandemic. But you are not alone!


Futurists predict what your sex life may look like after the pandemic

Mashable

The macro effects of the coronavirus impact are undeniable: Tens of thousands of lives lost, mass unemployment, life seemingly suspended in midair. But the pandemic's impacts have also rippled down to the minutiae of daily life, like social media behavior and messages on dating apps. Uncertainty is now an inescapable presence. As someone who's single, I often toil over what sex and dating will be like "after this is all over," when and if it's ever really over. While no one can know for sure, of course, I decided to ask futurists -- people who stare uncertainty in the face for a living -- for their thoughts.


Has human communication become botifed? - IBM iX

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How often do you receive a message and wonder, "Did a person really write this?" When receiving a message online, it can often be difficult to discern whether it came from a human or a chatbot. Given the rapid rise in automated forms of communication, it would be foolish to assume that words attached to a name and face are in fact human. On the same token, our emails and messages on social platforms are filled with general platitudes, formulaic personalizations, and responses that seem reminiscent of an if this, then that (IFTTT) equation. We typically chalk this up as a win for technologists, who have been busy adding linguistic nuances and flourishes to how chatbots interact with humans.


'Hey, Google! Let me talk to my departed father.'

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When Andrew Kaplan reminisces, his engrossing tales leave the impression that he's managed to pack multiple lives into a single existence: globe-trotting war correspondent in his 20s, a member of the Israeli army who fought in the Six-Day War, successful entrepreneur and, later, the author of numerous spy novels and Hollywood scripts. Now -- as the silver-haired 78-year-old unwinds with his wife of 39 years in a suburban oasis outside Palm Springs -- he has realized he would like his loved ones to have access to those stories, even when he's no longer alive to share them. Kaplan has agreed to become "AndyBot," a virtual person who will be immortalized in the cloud for hundreds, perhaps thousands, of years. If all goes according to plan, future generations will be able to interact with him using mobile devices or voice computing platforms such as Amazon's Alexa, asking him questions, eliciting stories and drawing upon a lifetime's worth of advice long after his physical body is gone. Someday, Kaplan -- who playfully refers to himself as a "guinea pig" -- may be remembered as one of the world's first "digital humans."


An Imagined Future Speaks In 'Talking To Robots'

NPR Technology

Your purchase helps support NPR programming. We've been talking to robots for a while now. In the decade or so since Siri and her compatriots first appeared, we've all gotten pretty used to having conversations with computers in various forms. While your Alexa doesn't look much like a Cylon (the scary metal kind or hotty flesh kind) now, it seems like it's just a matter of time of time before we'll be talking with all kinds of robots -- including those that look just like us. Time, robots and conversations are at the heart of David Ewing Duncan's new book Talking to Robots: Tales from Our Human-Robot Futures.


Are We Ready for Intimacy with Robots?

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Academically, he is using them to understand the mechanics of person-to-person interaction. But his true quest is to untangle the ineffable nature of connection itself. It is summer 2002, mid-morning in a university research lab on the edge of Osaka, Japan. Two girls--both dressed in pale yellow, with child-puffy cheeks, black shoulder-length hair, and bangs--stand opposite each other under fluorescent lights. More precisely: One is a girl, 5 years old; the other is her copy, her android replica.


LoveSync: Coordinating sex between busy couples should be an app

ZDNet

They bought chocolate, flowers, greeting cards, and made dinner reservations. They booked hotel nights and long weekends. It's an industry that is worth an estimated $20.7 billion in the US alone. Presumably, some of these couples intend to have sex as a result of all this planned romancing on the big day. But the reality of relationships of any duration between any couple is that sexual intimacy isn't always planned.


Intimacy in the Early Days of Online Dating

The Atlantic - Technology

Gus, a 19-year-old homeschooled Christian from Joliet, Illinois, is trawling Facebook. He's just recovered from a debilitating bout of depression, and he's looking for someone to talk to. Through an online personality test, he finds a match: Jiyun, a 20-year-old from Korea, who moved to New York City with her family for her brother's cancer treatment. Gus messages her, and they begin chatting. "I started to fall for him when I saw these tagged videos on Facebook," Jiyun reveals in Nancy Schwartzman's short documentary, xoxosms.