Four science-based rules that will make your conversations flow

One of the four pillars of good conversation is levity. You needn't be a comedian, you can but have some fun Conversation lies at the heart of our relationships – yet many of us find it surprisingly hard to talk to others. We may feel anxious at the thought of making small talk with strangers and struggle to connect with the people who are closest to us. If that sounds familiar, Alison Wood Brooks hopes to help. She is a professor at Harvard Business School, where she teaches an oversubscribed course called "TALK: How to talk gooder in business and life", and the author of a new book, Talk: The science of conversation and the art of being ourselves.