Polyamory Has Entered the Chat

Ryan and Randy met at a sex party in 2019 and started dating shortly after. By month four, they made the relationship official, eventually moved into a two-story house in Los Angeles together, and did all the things happy couples do: date nights, vacation with friends, support one another's ambitions. Then, in 2022, they decided to open the relationship. As Covid-19 restrictions loosened, "we were being exposed to other attractions and to other people who were seeking our attention," Ryan says. "We both knew we had attractions to other people. It was, let's talk about being open and see what that means for us. Because being open can mean different things to different people."